Cougar Dating
Age before beauty? With Cougar Dating age is beauty! If you
fancy toying with a toy-boy then this is the dating scene for
you
In the dating world, a 'Cougar' is slang for an older woman who likes to date
younger men (cubs). It is generally reckoned that, in this sense, a 'mature'
woman is a lady in excess of about thirty-five years of age and a 'cub' being
a male at least five years her junior. If you are either a would-be cougar or
a man (what would have been a 'toyboy' until the slang became popular) who prefers older women, then what is the best way of meeting your ideal
partner?
The concept of there being a demand for Cougar dating and, the name itself,
stems from the hit American TV series, Cougar Town. The program illustrates
very graphically that a woman does not cease to be desirable once she is over
thirty. In fact, to many, the opposite is true. The popularity of 'MILF' films
also suggests that there is a huge demand for mature women.
Cougar dating is where online dating truly comes into its own. With the
simple action of a search filter that allows you to specify the preferred age
of your matches, you can easily operate a cougar-cub relationship. Whereas
trying to get to know a cougar in a bar or club or, if you are a woman, trying
to attract a young man's attention, is going to be difficult to impossible.
Well, so it would seem that conventional online dating is the solution.
Unfortunately many would-be daters don't always think through the age range
they specify - probably because they are lonely and concerned that they won't
get to meet anyone at all. This is unhelpful to serious cougar-dating members.
As a result, if you are looking to meet a desirable older woman or consider
yourself to be a MILF to younger men then you should opt for a specialist
cougar dating website. There are now a whole host of them out there so, do a
search for 'Cougar Dating' and then plough through the results until you find
a site which seems reputable and which covers your geographical location.
There is nothing new in men being attracted to sensual older women nor is
it odd in any way. If you find the idea of dating someone who is confident,
self-assured and experienced to be sexy then you are already three-quarters
the way to being a cub. Likewise if you are of a certain age, sexually active,
frustrated by men of your own age group either chasing after anorexic twenty-somethings
or otherwise revelling in their own mid-life crisis, then you sound like good
cougar material.
So, does it matter if you aren't like the women on Cougar Town? No, not in
the slightest. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and, provided you present
yourself in the best light, you should have every hope of finding a 'young'
cub who will want taking in hand. Don't forget that confidence is immensely
sexy and if you can demonstrate to a man that you are in control of yourself,
you will become immensely desirable.
It does need to be said, though, that cougar dating is just like any other
form of dating. There are people whom you will like and want to meet up with
and there will be ones which you won't want to see. It doesn't make them bad
people, it's just part of what makes each of us unique.
Good luck with your dating. We hope you found our advice helpful and now
have some ideas about what is the best way to go about Cougar Dating.