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17 June 2010

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25 June 2010

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29 June 2010

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03 July 2010

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What questions should I ask at a speed dating event?

More haste, less speed but then you don't have time to stop and think at a speed dating event. It's a quick twenty questions and then it's all down to first impressions

A speed dating event has come up in your area. You've taken your hard-earned cash along and paid for your ticket and now you're worried that you won't get the most out of it because you won't ask the right questions. Either that or you're concerned that you'll dry up and not know what to say. Either way, we at the Dating Free Site can give you some pointers as to what questions you should ask at a speed dating event (along with some you shouldn't, too).

Remember you have five primary information-related objectives that cannot be established by a mere visual inspection of the dates.
  • Do you like their character?
  • Do you feel intellectually compatible?
  • Do they make you feel at ease?
  • Do you sense any magic in the air?
  • Can you present yourself in the best light?
So, how can you achieve these? Here are some suggestions for revealing questions to ask at a speed dating event.
  • What does love mean to you?
  • What are you looking for in a date?
  • What are you trying to avoid in a date?
  • If we were to get together, what would you bring to our relationship?
  • If you could change career today and you could be anything, what would you choose to do?
  • What real event has made you laugh the most in recent times?
  • A genie grants you three wishes - what would you choose?
  • If we were together, where would you like us to be in, say, ten years time?
  • Can you name a non-fictional character you find heroic?
  • What quality do you most admire in others of your sex?
  • How would your best friends describe you?
  • Could you tell me one small secret about yourself?
  • What individual thing have you done in your life that gives you particular pride?
  • Is there something that makes you especially sad?
  • What hobby do you most wish you had taken up (or would like to)?
  • Which is your favourite pastime?
  • Which place would you most like to visit and why?
  • If you were at a disco and there was someone obviously lonely but not very good looking would you dance with them if they asked you?
  • Would your friends approve of your answer?
  • Whose idea was it for you to come to this speed dating event?
These are just twenty searching questions we thought up to get you some revealing answers. Read them through again and get an idea of the psychology behind our speed dating questions. From there you can begin to develop your own. Remember, no matter what the other person does or says, smile at them. Maintain eye contact and keep it light. Never let your questions appear to be invasive or critical.

We hope that this answers the question of what questions should I ask at a speed dating event.